Anonymous asked:

Is it better to be leave someone you absolutely love because you know it isn't working or to stay with them and have them leave you and be devastated?

Hi dear,

Oh that is a very…hard question and can’t really be assumed with simply a “yes or no” answer.

If you love someone, why won’t it work out? Of course not all true love are guarantee to blossom, but not all of them die as a bud either. Since there’s no “absolute” in the kingdom of love, all it matters at the end of the day is that you give all you got, you tried all possible ways to love them and make your love shine bright while it lasted. I mean, won’t you regret for the rest of your life with this “what if…?”

What is love without adventures, the doubt of tomorrow, the surprises and not-so-happy-surprises. Just like a love story, if from the first page you can already deduce the ending, won’t you just put the book down and walk away?

- and yours goes on

My own love life reflection…

You know, as I was reflecting back with him yesterday, it seemed like in those early years we used to “fight” constantly. Ok, maybe not fight fight, more like I would get upset and he has to make up for it. Stupid mistakes like he thought my clothes were a little too short…or I wanted him to study harder.

Now days, I really can’t remember when was the last time that we had a big argument. That made me or him not talk to each other, or tears were spilled. Maybe, we are too old for it? Lol. All those incidents which were seen as the end of the world back them, when we think about it now, just are silly things, almost chuckling-funny to us now. There isn’t anything that cannot to be solved now, because we both know we can’t allow each other to be in someone else’s arms, so what can you do? Fix your problems and talk it out, try your best to get over it, and continuing our life, as one.

You know there isn’t anyone out there that’s born to be your life long partner. I always think the phrase “we should be loved as who we are” is very selfish. The most important thing about love is compromise. It’s the constant clashing of two distinct personalities, and smoothing over your own edges so you won’t hurt your lover, that is really what love is all about.

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p.s The cold weather is making me warm and fuzzy like almost Christmas…promise I will do more answering questions tomorrow…also trying to study for my big test on Wednesday…love ya all!!

Friends…GOOD friends

I never knew how big of an impact having a good group of friends can have on your life.

Even though my life is probably more hectic this year compare to last year, but I no longer feel that I’m the only one battling. You get to share your laughter, your tears, your secrets and complains. Every minute of your life is so much more special and spectacular. This is exactly what I was talking about, having a perfect lover does not complete your life, having a group of friends who truly share the same vibe as you does.

Friends, I know this is too cheesy to say face to face, but you guys truly have changed my life. I’m so happy and lucky to have met you guys and create memories together :) No matter how hard life gets from now on, I know I will not be alone.

WuW

-then we have to find a way back…